5 Signs of a cheating lover

1. Does your lover seem to be suspicious all of a sudden? If your lover is suddenly hiding his/her phone, walking out of the room to talk, or hides things, chances are your lover may be cheating.

2. Is there trouble in paradise? If you two are constantly arguing and are unhappy, lovers tend to look elsewhere to be happy for the moment.

3.Are you a late night fling? If the only time you see your lover is after the club or 3 in the morning, you can rest assured your not the only one in his life.

4. Does your partner's ex still contact him? If so you got problems. Ex's tend to linger on as long as they can especially when they know a new person is involved. Sometimes ex's do it out of spite because the relationship went sour and they cant stand for your lover to be happy with you.

5.Does he want his space all of a sudden? Does he want all this free time to hang out with friends too much and doesnt want to spend quality time with you? Its possible he could be cheating..

These 5 signs will let you know if your lover is cheating, and always remember a cheater will always get caught.

How to find closure in a relationship

Closure is important in order to move on. You need that peace of mind or else you will feel stuck no matter what you try to do. If you have trouble letting go, then do whatever it takes to get your closure. Sometimes you just want to figure out what went wrong or why your lover did what they did. There are so many reasons why it fell apart and you think if you give it one more chance or one more try it will work out. Maybe so, feelings change everyday but until then it is essential you get answers. If your lover fell out of love with you, figure out why. Ask when you are not emotional. if you are emotional you may not get the truth because your lover may not want to cause further damage. Figuring out why gives you knowledge and insight. If your lover cheated figure out why, what kinds of problems prompted the infidelity? There are a lot of factors to determine the reasons behind a break-up. Once you get your answer learn to let it all go. Talk to friends and family. Write a love song, or write in a journal. Whatever it takes to get those feelings out.

New life after divorce

Picking up the pieces after a divorce is never easy. Its a big change in one's life and there are steps you can take in order to move on..

If your having trouble letting go consider the following:

-When one door closes,another one opens. There is life after divorce. Even though it may seem difficult, time heals all things.

-Don't be blinded by what was. If your living in the past, you refuse to see what is happening in the present.

-Give yourself some "me" time. There is nothing wrong with taking some time to put yourself back together. Get your emotions in check and your mind right. Once you do, its time to put the past behind and start a new life. Take the time to find yourself again. Some people live in a marriage and end up losing themselves. Now is the time to find who you truly are..

-Get back on the market! This is the fun part. You can only do so much dwelling and crying before you realize there is someone out there just waiting for you! So why hesitate? Go out there and find your soulmate!

How to bring the PASSION back in your relationship

Men love their women to be sexy..its just their nature. If you find your relationshipt taking a turn for the worse, its time to figure out why. Lets be real ladies, have you gained weight over time? Do you walk around the house with sweats and a t-shirt with no make-up? Did you gradually let yourself go because of the kids? Routines in the relationship can make the passion die out and its up to you to bring it back! Here are some simple steps :

1. Behave as if you two first met. I know what your thinking, you feel comfy walkin around in your favorite pajamas and flip flops but if you want the passion back you gotta do what you gotta do. Wear those cute clothes you wore before when you first met your lover and get dressed up. Shed those unwanted pounds if you have to. Get a make-over..you get the idea.

2. You must have passion in the bedroom ladies..be willing to experiment with your man. If you say no to his desires, he may just find someone else to fulfill them! Now Im not saying you must say yes to everything, he must respect your boundaries, but it doesnt hurt to play dress-up once in a while. How about a little kama sutra? Keeping the flame alive in the bedroom just makes you two become closer.When your making love dont forget to kiss him like you never have before...men skip out on this but this is the most intimate thing you can do is kiss.

3. Be mysterious-just because you have your man is one thing, but you must learn how to keep your man. Don't talk to him like hes your bff theres no mystery left in you. Guys love a chase and they dont like women who are too available. Every once in a while let him wonder what your up to!

4. Dont nag or complain, men hate that. Dont talk to him about these issues either. He will think your too emotional. If you do the above steps everything will fall into place.