How to find closure in a relationship

Closure is important in order to move on. You need that peace of mind or else you will feel stuck no matter what you try to do. If you have trouble letting go, then do whatever it takes to get your closure. Sometimes you just want to figure out what went wrong or why your lover did what they did. There are so many reasons why it fell apart and you think if you give it one more chance or one more try it will work out. Maybe so, feelings change everyday but until then it is essential you get answers. If your lover fell out of love with you, figure out why. Ask when you are not emotional. if you are emotional you may not get the truth because your lover may not want to cause further damage. Figuring out why gives you knowledge and insight. If your lover cheated figure out why, what kinds of problems prompted the infidelity? There are a lot of factors to determine the reasons behind a break-up. Once you get your answer learn to let it all go. Talk to friends and family. Write a love song, or write in a journal. Whatever it takes to get those feelings out.